NO-FAULT & UNCONTESTED
DIVORCE PROCEDURES IN
VIRGINIA
Most of the information contained in the other family law pages on this site deal with the more complex aspects of the divorce process. For couples who have already settled everything between them and who simply want to terminate their marital bonds, the depth of that other information is just too much. Many visitors to the site have asked for just a brief synopsis of the process that is followed for a "simple" no-fault and uncontested divorce. We are pleased to oblige such a reasonable request.So, in a nutshell, here is how we accomplish for our clients a no-fault, uncontested divorce. (But please read the caveat below.)
| CAVEAT:
Just because you and your spouse have agreed to a divorce, that alone
does
not mean that you meet the criteria for an 'uncontested divorce' as we
we use that term on this page. An "uncontested" divorce
does
require that the parties agree to be divorced (or at least not to
interfere
with the other's request for the divorce). But it also requires that
the
parties have resolved all custody, visitation, marital property and
support
issues (or at least both parties must agree not to litigate them in the
divorce court). Typically these issues are settled well ahead of any
divorce
filing in the form of a written Property Settlement Agreement
(a/k/a
"PSA" or "Separation Agreement"). There are additional technical
requirements that must be followed before the divorce can be made
final,
but a pre-existing Property Settlement Agreement is the essence of an
uncontested
divorce (see Property Settlement Agreement
page
elsewhere on this site).
Some people have been married such a short period of time that they have accumulated no property together, they have no children and do not intend to ask for support. In such cases, the divorce likely can safely proceed without a PSA. In all other cases, we strongly encourage a Property Settlement Agreement. |
The Bill of Complaint concludes with a request that the court grant the plaintiff (the person filing for the divorce) a divorce from the defendant.
About a week after you have retained the attorney, you will be asked to return to the office to review the Bill of Complaint for accuracy (to check for correct spellings of names, dates, etc.) and to sign it. Please do read the document carefully. While we rarely make such mistakes, one is possible, especially in spelling of names.
Oftentimes, the spouse doesn't want the sheriff coming by his house or work site, and is willing to sign a "Waiver." In the typical waiver, your spouse waives the requirement of actual sheriff service, waives the 21 day 'response' period, waives the requirements of other notices that might be required (so long as there is not a request for money, property, custody or visitation which is different from the provisions of any Separation Agreement), and states that he or she also wishes the divorce to be granted as soon as possible. Even with a waiver, you (the plaintiff) must still prove the facts alleged in the Bill of Complaint. See Depositions, below.
In certain
jurisdictions,
most notably Hampton and all of the Southside Hampton Roads cities, the
deposition is taken in front of a quasi-judge person called a
'Commissioner
in Chancery.' The Commissioner listens to your testimony and that
of your witness, and recommends to the judge whether you have proven
your
divorce grounds. It's a bit more expensive, but you really have
no
choice in the matter.
The testimony taken at the depositions is typed up and sent to the judge in this written form.
The timing for the return of the final decree to our office is about 2 to 3 weeks after the taking of the deposition (longer when the depositions have been taken in front of a commissioner). Once the final decree is signed by the judge, you are divorced. Your divorce will be really, really final and unappealable thirty days after the judge signs the final decree. Your "official" divorce date, however, is the actual day the judge signs the Final Decree.
That's all there
is
to it.