NO-FAULT & UNCONTESTED
DIVORCE PROCEDURES IN
VIRGINIA
Most of the information contained in the other family law pages on this site deal with the more complex aspects of the divorce process. For couples who have already settled everything between them and who simply want to terminate their marital bonds, the depth of that other information is just too much. Many visitors to our site have asked for just a brief synopsis of the process that is followed for a "simple" no-fault and uncontested divorce.So, in a nutshell, here is how we accomplish for our clients a no-fault, uncontested divorce. (But please read the caveat below.)
| CAVEAT:
Just because you and your spouse have agreed to a divorce, that alone
does
not mean that you meet the criteria for an 'uncontested divorce' as we
we use that term on this and other pages on the site. An "uncontested" divorce does simply mean that the parties agree to be divorced (or at least not to interfere with the other's request for the divorce). It also means that the parties have resolved all custody, visitation, marital property and support issues (or at least both parties must agree not to litigate them in the divorce court). Typically these issues are settled well ahead of any divorce filing in the form of a written Property Settlement Agreement (a/k/a "PSA" or "Separation Agreement"). There are additional technical requirements that must be followed before the uncontested divorce can be made final, but a pre-existing Property Settlement Agreement is the essence of an 'uncontested divorce' (see Property Settlement Agreement page elsewhere on this site). Some people have been married such a short period of time that they have accumulated no property together, they have no children and do not intend to ask for support. In such cases, the divorce likely can safely proceed without a PSA. In all other cases, we strongly encourage a Property Settlement Agreement. |
a. the fact that your were
married,
where and when;
b. jurisdictional and venue
language
(why the case is brought in Virginia, and why in the particular city or
county);
c. the age, mental competency and
military status of both the husband and wife;
d. the existence of any children;
e. the date of the parties
separation;
f. a statement that the
separation
was begun with the requisite intent to remain permanently apart, or if
the separation was not begun with that intent to divorce, when that
intent
formed.
The Complaint concludes with a request that the court grant the plaintiff (the person filing for the divorce) a divorce from the defendant.
About a week after you have retained the attorney, you will be asked to return to the office to review the Complaint for accuracy (to check for correct spellings of names, dates, etc.) and to sign it. Please do read the document carefully. While we rarely make such mistakes, one is possible, especially in spelling of names.
Oftentimes, the spouse doesn't want the sheriff coming by the house or work site, and is willing to sign a "Waiver." In the typical waiver, your spouse waives the requirement of actual sheriff service, waives the 21 day 'response' period, waives the requirements of other notices that might be required (so long as there is not a request for money, property, custody or visitation which is different from the provisions of any Separation Agreement), and states that he or she also wishes the divorce to be granted as soon as possible. Even with a waiver, you (the plaintiff) must still prove the facts alleged in the Bill of Complaint. See Depositions, below.
The testimony taken at the depositions is typed up and sent to the judge in this written form.
In certain jurisdictions, most notably Hampton and all of the Southside Hampton Roads cities, the deposition is taken in front of a judge. The judge listens to live testimony and that of your witness, and rules on the spot whether you have proven your divorce grounds. It's a bit more expensive, but you really have no choice in the matter.
The timing for the
return
of the final decree to our office is about 2 to 3 weeks after the
taking
of the deposition. (If the testimony was taken in front of the judge,
there typically is no wait. We have all the paperwork for the judge's
signature.)
Once the final decree is signed by the judge,
you are divorced. Your divorce will be really, really final and unappealable
thirty days after the judge signs the final decree. Your
"official"
divorce date, however, is the actual day the judge signs the Final
Decree.
That's all there
is
to it.